Former bishop creates support group, explains how to be a good Mormon and still embrace the LGBTQ community
Richard Ostler served three years as the bishop of a Mormon congregation for young single adults. His Magna congregation was primarily heterosexual men and women, but there were a handful of lesbians and gays among the flock. That demographic breakdown was hardly unique, but it marked a turning point for the father of six. “My whole life, straight people have told me how to feel about LGBTQ people and I wondered how much homophobia was inside of me because I let them define that,” he said Wednesday. “I decided to wipe my hard drive clean.” As a bishop, Ostler spent time listening, not judging, the LGBTQ members under his wing. ”To hear their stories firsthand,” he said, “changed me.” When his church assignment neared its end in 2016, Ostler wanted to continue offering support. That’s why he formed Listen, Learn & Love , a Mormon LGBTQ support organization. The group is not affiliated with the Mormon church, but its website is a clearinghouse of resources for members. Parents,...